If I had a child, I would have stayed in my marriage, said Toke Makinwa.

If I had a child, I would have stayed in my marriage, said Toke Makinwa.
Toke Makinwa, a well-known Nollywood actress and media personality, has claimed that if she and Maje Ayida had a child together, she would have reconciled their divorce.


According to INFOGONG, Makinwa ended his relationship with Ayida in 2015 after learning that he had fathered a child with his ex-girlfriend.


However, the actress claimed she would have had to make concessions if she had a child on the most recent episode of her podcast, TokeMoments.


Many women remain in unhappy marriages because of the children, she claimed. You've been hearing so many women say things like, "The marriage is over, but I only stay for my kids," for a very long time.


And if I had a child when I was married, I might have been one of those ladies, if I'm being completely honest. because I also had the trauma of losing both of my parents when I was eight. I was adopted, after all. I am grateful for my wonderful life, but there have been occasions when I have wondered what my life may have been like if that hadn't occurred.


So, in order to ensure that my kids got both their parents, I may have had to make a compromise. One of these women might have been me. I am not even passing judgment on anyone at this time.


Iyabo Ojo, a guest on the podcast, claimed that she chose to leave her marriage and her children rather than stay with them because "I was young at the time." Many of the judgments I made when I was younger I probably would not have made. because I'm wiser and have a better grasp on life today.


However, I was coming from a location where I was already injured from my early years. Do you know what it's like to come from a highly wealthy family but still have to raise yourself? things of the sort.


"I didn't know my mother and father growing up. My father, my grandmother, and his brothers were my roommates. My grandmother served as my mother. And I used to call my father by his name. My dad was not a typical father. He served as both a friend and a brother. Because he lived life too much and didn't have time to actually pay attention to me, he was like an uncle to me.


"I grew up in a setting where I had no idea what the word'mummy' meant. I was unaware that I had a mother. When I was around seven, I met my mother. My parents never got hitched. My brother and I were only present together.


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